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If you expect it to shift into real time, for gawd sake, try to find someone who has more to offer you than just D/s.
D/s is fun, D/s is good, but D/s is also not all there is in life.
Think about whether you would like this person if you had to actually be WITH them.
Also, don't submit, even in cyber unless you actually mean it. A lot of cyber relationships are just as important as real life to the people involved and they take them just as seriously.
Even a cyber relationship needs some mutual ground for understanding.
DON'T ask questions like, "What do you do with your sub? If you notice a sub who has the respect of the Dommes, sure envy him, but also watch him and learn from him!
" or "What would you do to me if I were your sub." We don't do fantasy fodder wank material. What he is doing is working, he has the Dommes attention. I am a little confused by the subs who come in saying they are not worthy, if your not worthy why would a Domme want you?
Don't lead subs on to submit to you if you are just sub collecting for the heck of it, or if you have no intention of actually taking care of this person's well being.
Domming someone is a lot more than dressing in black and beating the crap out of your sub.